There’s really only one thing that changes dramatically when you have a baby: EVERYTHING.

Sure we all lose a lot of sleep, money, energy, car keys and brain cells. We don’t tend to blab online about intimacy as much, but it takes a huge hit, too.

So, let’s all snuggle up with a “tell it like it is” look at romance in parenthood with these realistic “love notes.”

Romance may not be dead, but for some of us parents, it can slip into a bit of a coma.