How to Be a Dad

How to Be a Dad

True Story

Is a House a Home?

Posted by on October 23rd, 2012, under NOTEBOOK

When the housing bubble burst, it was probably the first time I felt okay about being somewhat destitute as a child. Finally, being “descended from Irish working class immigrants” and the whole “salt of the earth” thing would work to my advantage. Growing up, the mindset just made me feel bad during my fancier life [...]

VIEW POST
Comments: 21

I Wanna WRECK-IT TOO, Ralph.

Posted by on October 16th, 2012, under NOTEBOOK

There’s a film coming out next month that you should go see. And I did some voiceover on it! No, besides Christmas in Compton. I mean Wreck-It Ralph! When I heard I was going to see the movie more than a month before it arrives in theaters, the video game fanatic in me was thrilled. [...]

VIEW POST
Comments: 25

Turning the Tables on Family Dinner

Posted by on October 11th, 2012, under NOTEBOOK

So, I’m an okay cook but by Friday night, my whole family are a bunch of zombie meatsacks. I decided to write about how to remove the stress out of family dinners by week’s end because I know so many families are dealing with the same problem. I wrote about it for Annie’s Homegrown, a [...]

VIEW POST
Comments: 7

The Living Tree

Posted by on October 2nd, 2012, under NOTEBOOK

Last night I was reading with my son during our nightly pre-bedtime read marathon. This guy gets bossy in his marshmallow chair. We sat critiquing the various characters and their behavior. There were the obvious socio-environmental questions about The Lorax, the revelation that The Goldbug in Richard Scarry’s books was actually a metaphor for racism and [...]

VIEW POST
Comments: 16

Techno-illogical Toddler

Posted by on September 20th, 2012, under NOTEBOOK

My son has a toy laptop that he carries around with him nearly everywhere he goes. It makes fun sounds, teaches letters, musical notes, animals sounds — this thing is an orchestra of learning and interactivity. The simplistic keyboard and screen make it nothing more than an oversized calculator with a digital readout. Press a [...]

VIEW POST
Comments: 16

Banana Added for Scale (A New, More Forgiving Unit of Measure)

Posted by on August 24th, 2012, under INSTRUCTIONAL DIAGRAMS

The banana is not a standard or scientific unit of measure. It isn’t even accurate. But isn’t accuracy really for people who build bridges and count how many eyebrow hairs they have? Let’s face it, not everything in the world needs a laser scan that can tell you the shoe size of a molecule. People [...]

VIEW POST
Comments: 21

IOUD, Part Two

Posted by on August 20th, 2012, under NOTEBOOK

Continued from IOUD, Part One… It was 4am. Staring at my phone, waiting for a text from Avara. Finn flopped around in his sleep almost as much as my mind jumped from outcome to outcome. ‘Gonna rest a bit until doc comes in. You gotta sleep. So wish we were home.’ With that, I gently [...]

VIEW POST
Comments: 113

IOUD, Part One

Posted by on August 16th, 2012, under NOTEBOOK

I said, “I want to go beat things and run fast.” She said, “I just want to cry and go to sleep.” Growing up without a firm handle on my emotions was tough. I couldn’t put a saddle on them and ride them until they tired out. I didn’t know how to burn them into [...]

VIEW POST
Comments: 91

Once More Unto the Breach…

Posted by on August 14th, 2012, under NOTEBOOK

Editor’s Note: Charlie has provided a soundtrack at the bottom of this post. Feel free to play it while reading this. Last week, Finn and I had an adventure. We did something neither of us had ever done before and busted out our bullwhip/fedora combo. As a parent, it doesn’t require much to venture toward [...]

VIEW POST
Comments: 28

A Teenager’s Bucket List

Posted by on August 13th, 2012, under SNAPSHOTS

This is completely true and unaltered and unbelievable. And yet, totally believable. One day a friend of mine went insane and decided to clean up the apocalypse of his fourteen-year-old boy’s room. Amid all the aftermath, he discovered something amazing. And since he’s the type of guy who covers this his son’s toilet bowl opening [...]

VIEW POST
Comments: 71